Speaking to the inner WHY

In a rapidly evolving world, equipping children with essential life skills goes beyond academics. While reading, writing and arithmetic remain essential, encouraging children to discover their personal 'why' can shape their lives in many positive ways. When the child understands his purpose and passion, personal growth occurs. In this article, we delve into why it's essential for children to explore and embrace their "why" and how it can benefit them in various aspects of life.

Encourages self-discovery:

By helping children to discover their motivation for doing certain things, we encourage them towards reflection and self-knowledge. By exploring passions, interests and values, children gain a deeper understanding of who they are as individuals. This process enables them to identify their strengths, weaknesses and unique qualities, enabling them to make informed decisions throughout their lives.

Cultivate intrinsic motivation:

When children are aware of themselves and what they want, they develop strong intrinsic motivation. Instead of relying solely on external rewards or pressures, they become motivated by their own personal interests and goals. This intrinsic motivation instills a sense of perseverance, determination and traits vital to success in any field.

It promotes the establishment and achievement of objectives:

Knowing their personal "why" helps children set meaningful goals that align with their passions and values. When goals are connected to their personal purpose, children are more likely to stay focused, overcome obstacles, and gain a sense of accomplishment. 

Improves confidence and resilience:

Understanding their "why" empowers children to embrace their uniqueness and develop confidence. By pursuing activities aligned with their passions, they gain a sense of competence and accomplishment. This newfound confidence allows them to take risks, learn from failures, fostering resilience and adaptability.

Facilitate academic engagement:

Children develop a real interest in learning. Education becomes more than a means to an end; it becomes a journey of self-discovery and personal growth. Children are more likely to engage in their own learning, explore new topics, and seek opportunities to apply their knowledge in meaningful ways. 

Encourages empathy and social connection:

By recognizing their passions and values, children can connect with like-minded individuals, encouraging social bonds and supportive relationships. This sense of belonging and connection enables children to collaborate effectively, embrace diversity and make a positive impact in their communities.

"Walking your why" is a concept that emphasizes the importance of children understanding their purpose or the reason behind their actions and choices. Encouraging children to explore and identify their "why" instills a sense of direction and motivation in their lives. When children have a clear understanding of their values, passions and goals, they become more focused, motivated and resilient in pursuing their dreams.

By helping children discover and articulate their inner principles and values, we empower them to make intentional choices aligned with who they are. When children have a strong sense of purpose, they are more likely to be intrinsically motivated, experience a greater sense of fulfillment, and persevere in the face of challenges. When children are aware of their purpose, they are more likely to engage in activities that bring them joy and fulfillment. This sense of purpose provides a guiding compass, helping children navigate life's ups and downs with resilience and a positive outlook. Ultimately, "walking the why" empowers children to lead purpose-driven lives and make meaningful contributions to the world around them.

Cultivating children's understanding of their personal "why" is an invaluable gift that can shape their lives in profound ways. By encouraging self-discovery, stimulating intrinsic motivation and promoting goal setting, children can embark on a journey of personal growth and fulfillment. The benefits extend beyond individual development, fostering confidence, resilience, academic engagement, empathy and social connection. As parents, educators, and mentors, it is critical to provide an environment that encourages children to explore their passions, values, and purpose, allowing them to unlock their true potential and navigate life with purpose and joy.

*Article written by Veronica Dunga, KEN Academy trainer.