{"id":46395,"date":"2023-11-22T06:25:57","date_gmt":"2023-11-22T06:25:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kenacademy.org\/?p=46395"},"modified":"2023-11-22T06:25:57","modified_gmt":"2023-11-22T06:25:57","slug":"spune-le-copiilor-ca-si-tu-ai-dat-gres","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kenacademy.org\/en\/spune-le-copiilor-ca-si-tu-ai-dat-gres\/","title":{"rendered":"Spune-le copiilor c\u0103 \u0219i tu ai dat gre\u0219"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 500;\">A fi p\u0103rinte este o c\u0103l\u0103torie minunat\u0103, unic\u0103 pentru fiecare copil, plin\u0103 de provoc\u0103ri \u0219i de momente magice. De\u0219i este firesc ca p\u0103rin\u021bii s\u0103 doreasc\u0103 s\u0103-i protejeze pe cei mici de greut\u0103\u021bile vie\u021bii, este la fel de important s\u0103-i \u00eenve\u021be c\u0103 e\u0219ecul face parte din experien\u021ba uman\u0103. O modalitate de a face acest lucru este de a \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219i copiilor propriile e\u0219ecuri \u0219i experien\u021be de \u00eenv\u0103\u021bare. \u00cen acest articol, vom explora de ce p\u0103rin\u021bii ar trebui s\u0103 le vorbeasc\u0103 copiilor lor despre propriile e\u0219ecuri \u0219i cum poate fi aceasta o lec\u021bie de via\u021b\u0103 valoroas\u0103.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Normalizarea e\u0219ecului<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 500;\">E\u0219ecul este o parte inevitabil\u0103 a vie\u021bii. Fie c\u0103 este vorba de o oportunitate de munc\u0103 ratat\u0103, un obiectiv neatins sau, toat\u0103 lumea se confrunt\u0103 cu e\u0219ecul la un moment dat. \u00cemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219ind propriile e\u0219ecuri cu cei mici, construim un spa\u021biu de \u00eencredere \u0219i normaliz\u0103m experien\u021bele care se termin\u0103 diferit de cum ne-am imaginat noi.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Consolidarea rezilien\u021bei<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 500;\">Atunci c\u00e2nd p\u0103rin\u021bii \u00ee\u0219i \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219esc e\u0219ecurile, \u00eei \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 pe copii despre rezilien\u021b\u0103. Copiii \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 c\u0103 e\u0219ecurile nu sunt sf\u00e2r\u0219itul lumii, ci mai degrab\u0103 oportunit\u0103\u021bi de a deveni mai puternici. Ei v\u0103d c\u0103 p\u0103rin\u021bii lor au \u00eenfruntat provoc\u0103rile \u0219i le urmeaz\u0103 exemplul.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 500;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-46396 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/kenacademy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Fail.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"765\" height=\"388\" srcset=\"https:\/\/kenacademy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Fail.png 765w, https:\/\/kenacademy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Fail-300x152.png 300w, https:\/\/kenacademy.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Fail-18x9.png 18w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 765px) 100vw, 765px\" \/><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00cencurajarea comunic\u0103rii oneste<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 500;\">Comunicarea deschis\u0103 \u0219i sincer\u0103 este esen\u021bial\u0103 pentru a construi rela\u021bii puternice cu copiii. \u00cemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219irea e\u0219ecurilor poate fi o modalitate de a sparge bariera perfec\u021biunii \u0219i de a crea un spa\u021biu \u00een care copiii se simt confortabil s\u0103 povesteasc\u0103 despre propriile lor dificult\u0103\u021bi. Aceasta transmite mesajul c\u0103 este sigur s\u0103 vorbe\u0219ti despre dificult\u0103\u021bi \u0219i s\u0103 cau\u021bi sprijin atunci c\u00e2nd este nevoie.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Promovarea empatiei<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 500;\">Atunci c\u00e2nd copiii aud despre e\u0219ecurile p\u0103rin\u021bilor lor, ei dob\u00e2ndesc o perspectiv\u0103 asupra experien\u021bei umane. Ei \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 c\u0103 oricine, chiar \u0219i p\u0103rin\u021bii lor, poate avea vulnerabilit\u0103\u021bi \u0219i momente de \u00eendoial\u0103 de sine. Acest lucru favorizeaz\u0103 empatia \u0219i \u00een\u021belegerea, deoarece copiii \u00eencep s\u0103-\u0219i vad\u0103 p\u0103rin\u021bii ca indivizi cu propriile c\u0103l\u0103torii \u0219i provoc\u0103ri unice.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Stabilirea unor a\u0219tept\u0103ri realiste<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 500;\">\u00cen lumea de ast\u0103zi, \u00een care re\u021belele de socializare prezint\u0103 adesea doar momentele\u00a0 \u201egata de a fi s\u0103rb\u0103torite\u201d din via\u021ba oamenilor, este u\u0219or pentru copii s\u0103 dezvolte a\u0219tept\u0103ri nerealiste. \u00cemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219irea e\u0219ecurilor \u00eei poate ajuta pe cei mici s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 c\u0103 via\u021ba nu este \u00eentotdeauna la fel de perfect\u0103 precum pare online. Ei vor fi mai pu\u021bin predispu\u0219i s\u0103 se compare cu standarde nerealiste \u0219i se vor concentra mai mult pe stabilirea unor obiective realizabile.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Oferirea de lec\u021bii de via\u021b\u0103 valoroase<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 500;\">Propriile e\u0219ecuri pot fi momente de \u00eenv\u0103\u021bare puternice. Atunci c\u00e2nd v\u0103 \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219i\u021bi experien\u021bele, pute\u021bi discuta despre lec\u021biile pe care le-a\u021bi \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat \u0219i despre strategiile pe care le-a\u021bi folosit pentru a dep\u0103\u0219i obstacolele. Aceast\u0103 \u00een\u021belepciune practic\u0103 poate fi de nepre\u021buit pentru copii, \u00een procesul lor de navigare pe propriile drumuri.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Fld9I8WOong?si=cghO9A6TLH9l6Z9-\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 500;\">P\u0103rin\u021bii sunt adesea v\u0103zu\u021bi ca modele de urmat, iar prin \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219irea e\u0219ecurilor lor, ei \u00ee\u0219i pot \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba copiii unele dintre cele mai importante lec\u021bii de via\u021b\u0103. Normalizarea e\u0219ecului, construirea rezilien\u021bei, \u00eencurajarea comunic\u0103rii oneste, promovarea empatiei, stabilirea unor a\u0219tept\u0103ri realiste, predarea responsabilit\u0103\u021bii \u0219i oferirea unor lec\u021bii de via\u021b\u0103 valoroase sunt toate motive conving\u0103toare pentru care p\u0103rin\u021bii ar trebui s\u0103 le povesteasc\u0103 copiilor lor despre propriile e\u0219ecuri. \u00cen cele din urm\u0103, aceast\u0103 vulnerabilitate poate \u00eent\u0103ri leg\u0103tura dintre p\u0103rin\u021bi \u0219i copii \u0219i \u00eei poate dota pe copii cu abilit\u0103\u021bile \u0219i mentalitatea de care au nevoie pentru a face fa\u021b\u0103 provoc\u0103rilor vie\u021bii cu \u00eencredere \u0219i gra\u021bie. A\u0219adar, da\u021bi-i drumul, \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219i\u021bi pove\u0219tile voastre despre e\u0219ecuri cu copiii vo\u0219tri &#8211; s-ar putea s\u0103-i inspira\u021bi s\u0103 accepte propriile e\u0219ecuri ca pe ni\u0219te trepte spre succes.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/kenacademy.org\/en\/our_team\/veronica-dunga\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>*Article written by Veronica Dunga, KEN Academy trainer<\/strong><\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A fi p\u0103rinte este o c\u0103l\u0103torie minunat\u0103, unic\u0103 pentru fiecare copil, plin\u0103 de provoc\u0103ri \u0219i de momente magice. De\u0219i este firesc ca p\u0103rin\u021bii s\u0103 doreasc\u0103 s\u0103-i protejeze pe cei mici &hellip; <\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":44228,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[32],"tags":[897,898,886,650],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kenacademy.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46395"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kenacademy.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kenacademy.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kenacademy.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kenacademy.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=46395"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kenacademy.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46395\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kenacademy.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/44228"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kenacademy.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=46395"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kenacademy.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=46395"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kenacademy.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=46395"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}